Saturday, December 26, 2009 Y
Someone forwarded this email to me and I think that this artical is very well impressed...
The woman in your life
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to;
and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER"
I hope you will do....
The woman in your life
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to;
and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER"
I hope you will do....
Labels: love
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Little Memories Of The Past
Little Memories Of The Past
Friday, December 25, 2009 Y
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MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!!!
As dad needed to work and brother had to attend tuition, so we didn't have celebration. Hahaha..anyway,I celebrated it by sleeping^^ This year, neighbour stopped organising christmas party, so we didn't have turkey to eat, no nice foods..T.T.. yet we had received gifts like in the retrospect. LOL..
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Haha.. my Xmas gift from neighbour this year= the hp's chain holder- a cow...jpg)
En, that's your Xmas gift-- a towel....jpg)
Min's Xmas gift- a nice handbag which had a rabbit toy on it.!!! Labels: festival
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Little Memories Of The Past
Thursday, December 24, 2009 Y
My 20th Birthday
On 18th Dec 2009, I received a birthday gift from my classmates (Bee yen, han hau, teng keen, yih loong, li yin, lay yoke and pei shan) after the gathering with them. At the same time, I received early birthday wish from an old man who had his drink there XD.
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The gift which is given by them-an Eighteen Eighty T-shirt.
At night, my ex-assistant manager, Kiki and George had celebrated my birthday at Gasoline Kepong. Before knowing them, I felt it’s ridiculous to befriend with someone who is older for 5 years and even more. It’s because I found not much topics can be talked to my elder cousins. But Kiki and him treated me like a young sister and always gave me comforts when I was far apart from KL.The chocolate cake that’s bought from Wonder Cake House was very delicious! And I received my 1st music box which I often hoped to receive since young. I thought it was a towel with a cow as decoration actually. Arigatou gozaimasu!
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Profuse thanks to be addressed to those who had greeted me with birthday wishes through facebook, sms and etcetera.
On 19th December 2009, as going for family vacation (Langkawi Trip),I didn’t celebrate my birthday with my close friends. En had given me 2 small but nice thingies as my birthday gift that she bought in penang i.e. a keychain which had my initial written on and a guitar keychain which I had asked many people to find for me..And she did it! Glad!
At night we went to Double Good Restaurant, Penang Island to have dinner together. It was meaningful for me and en as it’s my birthday dinner with family and hers with parents before staying at Penang for her studies. Then we shopped at Queensbay Mall. Hmm..thanks to Maxis for giving me to enjoy calling for free for the whole day! Haha…Thanks to dad and mom who had bought me a blouse, a pair of Googles Jeans and Oreef Jacket as birthday gifts..jpg)
On 23rd Dec 2009, my family and I were back from Penang Island and I felt forlorn as will only be meeting en during CNY. There’s an incongruity between us as we liked to quarrel when sharing a same bedroom and when to use computer and so on.. but when separated, it’s another story..Hmm…Anyhow, I was shocked when I reached home as received a pos laju customer-responsive mail which I had to go to post office to receive my parcel there. With puzzling mind, I opened the parcel, it was delivered by my gang in UTHM ( should be was posted by my 四姐-Chia Pei). It’s a meaningful gift which had been designed and made with unremitting efforts by her and others! I wondered when they wrote the birthday greetings on. Their observation was great as they had bought me 2 pairs of Vincci earrings which I liked during our JB trip in Nov. Thanks a lot! Chia Pei, thanks for the card u made..Felt touched!.jpg)
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On 24th December 2009, it was 1 of my close buddies’ birthday=> Chin Ting’s big day! Wen Xuan, Chin Ting, Sean Wong, Yan Yan and I celebrated her birthday (Christmas‘s eve) together..That was an unprecedented outing in which we involved indirectly in the countdown activity! CROWDED!!! And I saw how the polices involved in the corruption when those snow-sprays sellers were caught red-handed. Our country is BOLEH in everything!!! My Birthday gift from Yan Yan>>Bracelets! I like them!!!In retrospect, we knew each since standard 5 and had celebrated birthday for quite many times every year, hoping that can be friends forever~~
On 27th December 2009,surprisingly I received another 2 belated birthday gifts.Hmm..One was from Wai Min and Pei Xuan--Famous Amos Chocolate Chips^^ Thanks a lot for delivering it to my house under the heavy rain, and hope u both take care in uni!The most unexpected gift was from Mr. Chandra,Dad's working partner who was from India- A meaningful book which's entitled "How to Enjoy Your Life and Your Job", I will be bringing it along with me to Johor. Unable to address my thanks to him directly, so thank him here..=)
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The present which was given by Wai Min and Pei Xuan
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- from a thoughtful and very knowledgeable man- Mr. Chandra~
Last but not least,stepping into the age of 20 finally.Honestly, I wasn't really happy with it as the more birthday I celebrated, the more increasing of my age so as my parents. =( Anyway,the fact is I need to grow up more maturely,more knowledgeable and more successful!!!
Eventually, thanks again to everyone who had given me gifts and wishes..All these had made my days very graceful as that means you all are remembering me..Tq
Labels: happenings, memories, my favourite
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Little Memories Of The Past
Little Memories Of The Past
Wednesday, December 23, 2009 Y
Langkawi Trip with my family (from 20th dec till 23rd 2009)
It's not like a piece of cake to organise a family trip especially for a family with a busy dad,a daughter who studies at the south while another studies at the north,another two more are busy with tons of holidays homeworks and of course attending tuitions.Year 2009,two daughters are separated far apart for their future studies and while another two have no major exams to sit for,hence we have decided to go for family vacation during the year-end holidays.
Although it will be the 3rd time to go to Langkawi Island,yet I am still looking forward for it..It'll be etching in my minds as this time is going with my family!
On 19th Dec 2009, we had been headed to Penang Island(Bayan Baru) i.e. my aunt's house.We spent our night by going to shopping at Queensbay Mall and dad bought me a blouse and a Googles branded Jeans.XD..
On 20th Dec 2009, after eating breakfast at Penang Island, we went to Kuala Kedah's jetty to abraod ferry to Langkawi Island.Again,we waited for an hour before the ferry arriving.I wondered why the transports (Bus,Ktm Komuter,LRT,and even the ferry) in our country always being late! HUH!!! We reached jetty point of Langkawi Island at 3.40pm and we rented a car as our transport in Langkawi Island.After we settled down in our hotel, we had our lunch and then headed to Eagle Square and Lagenda Park.After that,we went for SHOPPING! We bought lotsa chocolates,mostly is for mom to let her taste buds enjoy..lol..erm,I bought a luggage bag.
Lagenda Park
~me and mom~
~en, min and xian posing~
~still the sweet couples~On 21st Dec 2009, we started our trip from our Bella Vista Hotel to the west of the island. Laman Padi>> Cenang Beach>> Underwater World>> Cable Car and Oriental Village >> Black Sand Beach >> Air Hangat Village...
at Bella Vista Hotel
at Cenang Beach
En with her paddy
me at the paddy field..
On 22nd Dec 2009, after having breakfast in the hotel, we went to walk around our hotel and enjoyed the natural view of the sea.Our ferry's departure time was delayed for an hour again ..Haiz... We stayed overnight at aunt's house before going back to KL..
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me and en in front of Bella Vista Hotel
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(More photos in facebook photo gallery)
I remembered what dad said to mom when we took a family photo,he said," it will not have a lot of chances for us to take family photos or having family vacation as they(the youngsters) have grown up and separated for studies or work soon"...Hmm...felt kinda sad when heard that as that's the naked truth..Huh..no matter how, I love my family forever~~
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Little Memories Of The Past
Little Memories Of The Past
Sunday, December 6, 2009 Y
In ♥ with voodoo dolls
About 3 things I am absolutely positive with~~
First, making voodoo dolls is a pleasurable activity.
It can elicit laughter and can cast a spell on an unknown individual. So better don't bully me, or...XD
Second,voodoo dolls creation are originated from India and with the spirits rule over the world's affairs in matters of family, love, happiness, justice, wealth, revenge.
Third,I am uncontitionally and irrevocably in love with voodoo dolls..XD
My voodoo dolls collection ~
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Little Memories Of The Past
Tuesday, December 1, 2009 Y
Tagged by Siew Teng
1.Besides your lips, where is the favorite spot to get kissed?
forehead
2.How did you feel when you woke up this morning?
I still wanna sleep again..
3.Who was the last person/people you took a photo with?
erm..the gang in uthm~~
4.Would you consider yourself spoiled?
no..
5.Will you ever donate blood?
sure...had donated once before~~
6.Have you ever had a best friend who was of the opposite sex?
I guess so..
7.Do you want someone to be dead?
no..
8.What does your last text message say?
forgotten~~
9.What are u thinking right now?
someone,voodo string dolls and my laptop
10. Do you want someone to be with you now?
erm..yup..friends!!!
11.What was the time you went to bed last night?
2.30am^^
12.Where did you buy the tee you are wearing now?
erm..nt wearing tee now anyway~~
13.Is someone on your mind right now?
yes
14.Who was the last person who text you?
hh
TEN Lucky Person to do this quiz…
1. si en
2. yan yan
3. bennie tay
4. sean wong
5. maxloon pui
6. adeline wok
7. yi zheng
8. tiffany
9. shirley tan
10. val
15. Who is no. 2 having a relationship with?
hmm..lol..ask her~~
16. Is no. 3 a male or a female?
male
17. If no. 7 and and no. 1 get together, would it be a good?
ha?it's impossible...
18. What is no. 1 studying about?
hmm..师范学院，Penang
19. When was the last time you chatted with them?
erm..depends on who are the person~~
20. Is no. 4 single?
haha..no..erm,can ask no.2 for the absolutely correct answer..
21.Say something about no. 2.
She's getting more feminine with her long hair.She has a cute voice and she's definitely a pet lover~~She's a USM student now,and I guessed she's proud of it..
22.What do you think about no. 2 and no. 6 being together?
ooo..being together to chat or...?they both can chat about their uni life~~
23.Describe no. 9.
the new friend I knew from uthm's bpa or perhaps during tennis ..She has the same horoscope as me and lives in kl too..XD..A nice,pretty and helpful girl..
24. What will you do if no. 6 and no. 7 fight?
erm...IF they really fight, I will ask the no.7 to stop doing that as guy should not being violent to girl
25. Do you like 8?
sure...still my buddy=)
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Little Memories Of The Past
Little Memories Of The Past
Monday, November 30, 2009 Y
Speaking Filthy Words Is A Norm Among Guys
In the serene morning of last Friday,my mom suddenly asked me about questions which made me stunned for few seconds before answering her.Haha..the question was "How many of your male friends speak swear words?Do xxx speak?How about xxx?" She had read the article of the newspapers that was written that 'speaking filthy language is a norm among the males and if guys who don't speak swear words, they are not males.'
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Most of my friends know that listening to foul words will create qualm to me.In the surrounding, it is inevitable to have friends who have such recalcitrant behaviour.Yea, I really detest people who like to speak such speech in which they have the fallacy to think that speaking foul language is noble,stylish and normal for them.The "F word," a taboo, is now high fashion with such profanity often being heard in movies,songs,magazines and etcetera. In my opinion,cursing loudly and offensively is only a callous act which may show how ignorant and boorish is the person.Some explained that they speak filthy language is to express their sorrow or anger when I asked for the reasons of them speaking filthy language.Some explained as same as what the article wrote.Some explained that they speaked filthy language depending on the situation where they didn't speak with the presence of ladies or parents. O_o!!!
Hmm..I wondered how plausible was the statement. A well-disciplined person should be aware with the words that come out from their mouth as the pen is mightier than the sword. Moreover,the speech reveals much about a person.I bet wise employers know this.If an employee feels no qualms about using expletives in the interview, he'd probably uses them with his customers.The profanity usage can make a person seem being aggressive and tough?! No..Such language implies an inability to communicate well and to discern what is inappropriate. Huh..such recalcitrant behavior should be eradicated as soon as possible but not to treat it as a norm in the society.
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Little Memories Of The Past
Sunday, November 29, 2009 Y
A mysterious color, purple is associated with both nobility and spirituality.My friend told me that purple colour means romantic not long ago.The emotive symbolism of this colour is royalty, spirituality, nobility, pomp and ceremony, mysterious, transformation, wisdom, enlightenment.Hmm..I started to like this colour after my room was painted in violet colour~~
Today, my parents attended the wedding of their friend's daughter who loves purple very much.I was attracted by the invitation card which was made in Indonesia,souvenirs and the ballroom's decoration.
purple rocks!!!
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